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About Us

Our Story

  

Our Destiny Our Future Foundation was born from unimaginable loss—and built on the enduring love and generosity that defined Destiny’s life.


My daughter, Destiny McClain, was 23 years old when she was murdered in Phoenix, Arizona, on July 18, 2021. But the way she died is only one part of her story. Destiny had a smile that could light up a room and a personality to match. Loving, caring, nurturing, and deeply selfless, she put others before herself and gave from the heart without expecting anything in return.


After losing Destiny, I knew her life deserved to be remembered for far more than the way it ended. I wanted people to know who she was, how deeply she loved, and the lasting impact she had on everyone around her.


In 2022, I founded Our Destiny Our Future Foundation to carry Destiny’s compassion, selflessness, and commitment to others forward through meaningful service.


What began as a way to honor my daughter has grown into an enduring commitment to serve others in her name. Through scholarships, support for children and youth in foster care, back-to-school and community initiatives, assistance for victims and families, advocacy, and violence-prevention efforts, we create opportunities and bring hope to the people and communities we serve.


Our advocacy is deeply personal. As a mother seeking justice and answers for her child, I understand the uncertainty and pain families can face. That experience strengthens my commitment to stand beside other families, raise awareness of victims and unresolved cases, speak openly about the real impact of gun violence, and connect people with trusted resources and organizations when they need support beyond what our Foundation can provide.


Every scholarship awarded, backpack filled, child supported, family encouraged, and voice raised in advocacy carries Destiny’s kindness and generosity forward.


Her life had purpose. Her story matters. Through Our Destiny Our Future Foundation, her legacy lives on in every person we serve and every life we strive to change.

Mission • Vision • Values • Our Work

Who We Are

Who We Are

Who We Are

Our Destiny Our Future Foundation was founded in memory of Destiny McClain, whose life was marked by love, compassion, generosity, and a heart for others. Destiny had a smile that lit up a room and a personality to match it. She was loving, caring, nurturing, and selfless, often putting the needs of others before her own. The Foundation carries those qualities forward by creating opportunities, supporting children and families, serving the community, and advocating for victims and their loved ones.

Mission

Who We Are

Who We Are

Our Destiny Our Future Foundation honors the life and legacy of Destiny McClain by creating opportunities for students, individuals, and families through education, community support, advocacy, and outreach. Through scholarships, foster-care support, service initiatives, and awareness efforts, we work to turn loss into life, hope, opportunity, and giving.

Vision

Who We Are

Our Values

We envision communities where people have access to educational opportunity and meaningful support, children and families are met with compassion and resources, and victims and their loved ones are seen, heard, remembered, and supported.

Our Values

Scholarships & Education

Our Values

• Legacy — We keep Destiny’s spirit alive through acts of kindness, generosity, service, and hope.


• Compassion — We meet people with empathy, care, and respect, especially during difficult times.


• Service — We believe in showing up for others and turning compassion into meaningful action.


• Opportunity — We help create pathways for people to pursue education, personal growth, and their goals.


• Advocacy — We raise awareness, amplify the voices of victims and families, and stand alongside those seeking answers, support, and change.


• Community — We believe stronger communities are built through partnership, connection, and people working together.

Our Work

Scholarships & Education

Scholarships & Education

Our work reflects the many ways Destiny cared for others and the Foundation’s commitment to making a meaningful difference in the lives of young people, families, victims, and the community.

Scholarships & Education

Scholarships & Education

Scholarships & Education

We provide scholarships to help students pursue higher education and invest in their future. Through educational support, we seek to open doors, recognize determination, and give young people opportunities to continue growing and achieving their goals.

Children, Foster Youth & Families

Children, Foster Youth & Families

Children, Foster Youth & Families

We support children and young people in foster care and families in the community through back-to-school initiatives, holiday giving, and other outreach efforts. Our goal is to provide practical support while reminding those we serve that their community sees and cares about them.

Victim & Family Support

Children, Foster Youth & Families

Children, Foster Youth & Families

We provide compassionate support, information, and resource referrals to victims and surviving families. When a need falls outside the services we provide, we connect individuals and families with other organizations and community resources that may be able to help.

Advocacy & Awareness

Children, Foster Youth & Families

Youth Violence Prevention

We bring attention to victims, unresolved cases, and the experiences of surviving families through public speaking, media engagement, press conferences, community events, and collaboration with other families and advocates. In September 2026, Destiny’s mother, Brenda Gilliam, a Volunteer Advocate with Arizona Voice for Crime Victims, worked with Arizonans for Effective Public Safety and participated in a press conference at the Arizona State Capitol, representing Destiny and supporting greater awareness and resources for unresolved homicide and missing-person cases. The following day, Arizona issued a proclamation recognizing September 20–26 as Unresolved Case Awareness Week and the month of September as National Cold Case Month. We believe every victim matters, every family deserves to be heard, and unresolved cases should not be forgotten.

Youth Violence Prevention

Youth Violence Prevention

Youth Violence Prevention

We participate in community efforts that help young people understand the real-life consequences of gun violence and the impact their choices can have on themselves, their families, victims, and the wider community. Destiny’s mother, Brenda Gilliam, served on a victim-impact panel for Project S.A.F.E. (Safety Awareness and Firearms Education), speaking with juveniles on probation for nonviolent gun offenses about the effects of gun violence on families and communities. Developed by the Judicial Branch of Arizona in Maricopa County’s Juvenile Court and Probation Departments, Project S.A.F.E. combines digital learning, peer support, mentorship, victim-impact education, credible-messenger panels, and family participation to reduce gun violence and help young people build safer, more hopeful futures 

Community Partnerships

Youth Violence Prevention

Community Partnerships

We work alongside schools, foster-care organizations, businesses, nonprofits, advocates, and community partners to expand resources, strengthen outreach, and create greater impact together.

Destiny’s Legacy

Youth Violence Prevention

Community Partnerships

Our Destiny Our Future Foundation is more than an organization created in Destiny’s name. It is a continuation of the way she lived: loving people, caring for others, giving without expecting anything in return, and bringing light into the lives around her. Every scholarship awarded, every child supported, every family helped, and every voice raised through our advocacy allows Destiny’s legacy to continue creating good in the world.

Leadership & Contact

Brenda Gilliam — Founder & President

Inspired by her daughter Destiny’s life and legacy, Brenda leads the Foundation with compassion, purpose, and a commitment to helping others. She also serves as a Volunteer Advocate with Arizona Voice for Crime Victims and a Project S.A.F.E. Victim-Impact Panelist. 


Our Destiny Our Future Foundation
P.O. Box 832, Tolleson, AZ 85353
(602) 915-3333
info@ourdestinyourfuturefoundation.org
www.ourdestinyourfuturefoundation.org 

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P.O. BOX 832, TOLLESON, AZ 85353

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Copyright © 2023, OUR DESTINY OUR FUTURE FOUNDATION is a tax exempt 501(c)(3) Nonprofit Organization Tax ID 92-1572345

SILENT PROTEST

THE EMPTY CHAIR PROJECT


SET THE TABLE. SAY THEIR NAME.


Join us for a silent protest bringing awareness to missing persons and unsolved cases.


This holiday season, we will set a table with empty chairs representing the loved ones who should be there. Each chair represents a person, a story, and a family still waiting for answers.


Bring a chair. Bring their photograph. Say their name.


📅 Monday, November 2, 2026
⏰ 11:00 AM–1:00 PM
📍 Wesley Bolin Memorial Plaza | Arizona State Capitol


Missing Persons • Cold Cases • Not Forgotten

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